{"product_id":"feeling-good-together-the-secret-to-making-troubled-relationships-work","title":"Feeling Good Together: The Secret to Making Troubled Relationships Work","description":"\u003ctable align=\"center\" border=\"0\" cellpadding=\"2\" cellspacing=\"0\" width=\"100%\"\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd class=\"productDetailSmallElements\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eTable of Contents\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tAcknowledgments -- Introduction -- Part 1. Why Can't We All Just Get Along? -- Chapter 1. What the Experts Say -- Chapter 2. The Dark Side of Human Nature -- Chapter 3. Why We Secretly Love to Hate -- Chapter 4. Three Ideas That Can Change Your Life -- Part 2. Diagnosing Your Relationship -- Chapter 5. How Good Is Your Relationship? The Relationship Satisfaction Test -- Chapter 6. What Do You Really Want? -- Chapter 7. The Price of Intimacy -- Chapter 8. The Relationship Journal -- Chapter 9. Good Communication vs. Bad Communication -- Chapter 10. How We Control Other People -- Chapter 11. Three Troubled Couples -- Part 3. How to Develop Loving Relationships with the People You Care About -- Chapter 12. The Five Secrets of Effective Communication -- Chapter 13. The Disarming Technique -- Chapter 14. Thought and Feeling Empathy -- Chapter 15. Inquiry: Did I Get That Right? -- Chapter 16. I Feel Statements -- Chapter 17. Stroking: I-It vs. I-Thou Relationships -- Chapter 18. Putting It All Together: Solutions to Common Relationship Problems -- Part 4. Making the Five Secrets Work for You -- Chapter 19. Mastering the Five Secrets -- Chapter 20. Using the Five Secrets in Real Time: The Intimacy Exercise -- Chapter 21. Intimacy Training for Couples: The One-Minute Drill -- Part 5. Common Traps-and How to Avoid Them -- Chapter 22. Help! The Five Secrets Didn't Work! -- Chapter 23. Helping and Problem Solving -- Chapter 24. Hiding Your Head in the Sand: Conflict Phobia and Anger Phobia -- Chapter 25. Apologizing: Can't I Just Say, 'I'm Sorry'? -- Chapter 26. Submissiveness: I Must Please You -- Chapter 27. Resistance Revisited: Why Should I Have to Do All the Work? -- Part 6. Advanced Techniques -- Chapter 28. Changing the Focus: Is There an Elephant in the Room? -- Chapter 29. Positive Reframing: Opening the Door to Intimacy-and Success -- Chapter 30. Multiple-Choice Empathy: How to Talk to Someone Who Refuses to Talk to You -- Appendix: Your Intimacy Toolkit -- Index.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eMarc Notes\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tCopyright date 2008.;Includes bibliographical references and index.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eBiographical Note\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eDavid D. Burns, MD, \u003c\/b\u003e is an adjunct clinical professor of psychiatry emeritus in the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at the Stanford University School of Medicine, and has served as Visiting Scholar at Harvard Medical School. His bestselling book, \n\u003ci\u003eFeeling Good, \u003c\/i\u003e has sold over four million copies.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eReview Quotes\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tPraise for \n\u003ci\u003eFeeling Good Together \u003c\/i\u003efrom mental-health professionals: \n\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\"This is the finest work of its kind and will stand for generations as \n\u003ci\u003ethe\u003c\/i\u003e relationship book.\" \n\u003cbr\u003e--Matthew May, MD, adjunct clinical faculty, Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at the Stanford University School of Medicine \n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\" \n\u003ci\u003eFeeling Good Together\u003c\/i\u003e should be required reading for all couples who want to create a happy, healthy relationship.\" --Tori Kelley, PhD, LMHC, owner, Central Florida Mental Health, Inc. \n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\"Finally, a relationship repair tool kit without fluff or camouflage. Change is a choice for brave and daring souls. Thank you, Dr. Burns!\" --Nancy Ellen Lee, MFT, PhD \n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\"Implementing these ideas has been truly life changing. It works!\" --Mischa Routon, MFT \n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\"The relationship strategies in this book are simple but profound. This is Dr. Burns's most seminal work. \" --Jan Stanfield, MFT\/LCSW \n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\"A powerful set of tools (and even a tool kit) to evaluate, repair, or enhance our relationships. \n\u003ci\u003eFeeling Good Together\u003c\/i\u003e is destined to become a classic.\" --Hugh Baras, PhD, adjunct clinical assistant professor, Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at the Stanford University School of Medicine\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublisher Marketing\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eBased on twenty-five years of clinical experience and groundbreaking research on more than 1,000 individuals, \u003ci\u003eFeeling Good Together\u003c\/i\u003e presents an entirely new theory of why we have so much trouble getting along with each other, and provides simple, powerful techniques to make relationships work. \u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003eWe all have someone we can't get along with--whether it's a friend or colleague who complains constantly; a relentlessly critical boss; an obnoxious neighbor; a teenager who pouts and slams doors, all the while insisting she's not upset; or a loving, but irritating spouse. In \n\u003ci\u003eFeeling Good Together\u003c\/i\u003e, Dr. David Burns presents Cognitive Interpersonal Therapy, a radical new approach that will help you transform troubled, conflicted relationships into successful, happy ones. \n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eDr. Burns' method for improving these relationships is easy and surprisingly effective. In \n\u003ci\u003eFeeling Good Together, \u003c\/i\u003eyou'll learn how to: \n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e- Stop pointing fingers at everyone else and start looking at yourself. \n\u003cbr\u003e- Pinpoint the exact cause of the problem with any person you're not getting along with. \n\u003cbr\u003e- And solve virtually any kind of relationship conflict almost instantly. \n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eFilled with helpful examples and brilliant, user-friendly tools such as the Relationship Satisfaction Test, the Relationship Journal, the Five Secrets of Effective Communication, the Intimacy Exercise, and more, \n\u003ci\u003eFeeling Good Together\u003c\/i\u003e will help you enjoy far more loving and satisfying relationships with the people you care about. \n\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cb\u003e\u003cbr\u003eYou deserve rewarding, intimate relationships\u003ci\u003e. Feeling Good Together\u003c\/i\u003e will show you how.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\n\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\u003c\/table\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Burns, David D\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Harmony\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eBinding:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePub Date:\u003c\/b\u003e 2010-01-26\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eBISAC:\u003c\/b\u003e Psychology \/ Interpersonal Relations|Family \u0026amp; Relationships \/ Dysfunctional Families|Self-Help \/ Communication \u0026amp; Social Skills\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSubjects:\u003c\/b\u003e Interpersonal conflict|Conflict (Psychology)|Interpersonal relations|Cognitive therapy\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.53 lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN:\u003c\/b\u003e 9780767920827\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eASIN:\u003c\/b\u003e -\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSKU:\u003c\/b\u003e SP-9780767920827\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Harmony","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":52425721217305,"sku":"SP-9780767920827","price":26.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0913\/0380\/5209\/files\/9780767920827_spiral.png?v=1779483325","url":"https:\/\/westbindery.com\/products\/feeling-good-together-the-secret-to-making-troubled-relationships-work","provider":"West Bindery","version":"1.0","type":"link"}