{"product_id":"we-over-me-the-counterintuitive-approach-to-getting-everything-you-want-from-your-relationship","title":"We Over Me: The Counterintuitive Approach to Getting Everything You Want from Your Relationship","description":"\u003ctable align=\"center\" border=\"0\" cellpadding=\"2\" cellspacing=\"0\" width=\"100%\"\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd class=\"productDetailSmallElements\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eReview Quotes\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\"Khadeen and Devale Ellis's story shows that marriage can be a bumpy ride, but if you can laugh and cry together, argue fairly, and put \n\u003ci\u003ewe over me, \u003c\/i\u003e you'll be on your way to long-lasting love and commitment.\" \n\u003cb\u003e--Tiffany \"The Budgetnista\" Aliche, \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestselling author of \u003ci\u003eGet Good with Money\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\"Putting \n\u003ci\u003ewe over me\u003c\/i\u003e is a concept that we have applied to our relationship for twenty-five years. Khadeen and Devale are great examples for how loving, playful, devoted, and business minded your relationship can be. Intentionally doing it all together and consistently putting the \n\u003ci\u003ewe\u003c\/i\u003e over \n\u003ci\u003eme\u003c\/i\u003e. We are certain their testimony will inspire you and activate your relationship to mirror what they model.\" \n\u003cb\u003e--Dondré Whitfield and Salli Richardson Whitfield, actors\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\"This book will have you laughing and crying, and it's a must-read for couples and singles who want the best out of their relationship (or who just want to be entertained)!\" \n\u003cb\u003e--Tommy and Codie Elaine Oliver, founders of Black Love, Inc.\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\"Loving openly and honestly isn't easy, yet we know that it is necessary, as we can all benefit immensely. How grateful we are for Khadeen and Devale's impact on our lives through their courageous transparency in the practice of love. \n\u003ci\u003eWe Over Me\u003c\/i\u003e teaches us that it is their love for themselves, each other, and their family that invites us all to love and love more abundantly.\" \n\u003cb\u003e--Karega Bailey and Dr. Felicia Gangloff-Bailey, PhD, \u003ci\u003eSOL Affirmations \u003c\/i\u003epodcast\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\"Khadeen and Devale are a true example of what marriage is and how the foundation is \n\u003ci\u003elove--\u003c\/i\u003efrom the highs to lows, ups and downs, and everything in between. \n\u003ci\u003eWe Over Me\u003c\/i\u003e unpacks the core values of defining your own marriage, while keeping the commitment in the forefront. This book is a must-have and is sure to help tons of people and their marriages.\" \n\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e--\u003c\/i\u003eEva Marcille, actor \u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\"K\u0026amp;D give hope to millennials who want to follow their dreams, remain in love, and have families. Staying married in this day and age takes a whole different mindset, and this book gives an intimate and honest look at the inner workings of their strong union.\" \n\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003e--\u003c\/i\u003eGia Peppers, award-winning journalist and television host\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eBiographical Note\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eDevale Ellis\u003c\/b\u003e is a former NFL player turned actor known for his lead roles on Tyler Perry's \n\u003ci\u003eSistas\u003c\/i\u003e and the spin-off, \n\u003ci\u003eZatima\u003c\/i\u003e. He is the co-creator, along with Khadeen, of the Ellises social sitcom on YouTube and Facebook and co-host of the Webby Award-winning podcast, \n\u003ci\u003eDead Ass with K\u0026amp;D\u003c\/i\u003e. \n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eKhadeen Ellis\u003c\/b\u003e is a TV host and actress. She is a two-season alum of OWN's \n\u003ci\u003eBlack Love\u003c\/i\u003e docuseries and has served as a keynote speaker in large conferences such as Essence Festival and The Momference. Their podcast, \n\u003ci\u003eDead Ass\u003c\/i\u003e, covers love, sex, and marriage, with notable guests including President Joe Biden, Louis Carr, Tiffany Aliche, and Shan Boodram.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublisher Marketing\u003c\/strong\u003e:\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eNEW YORK TIMES \u003c\/i\u003eBESTSELLER - The stars of the social media show \u003ci\u003eThe Ellises\u003c\/i\u003e and hosts of the Webby Award-winning podcast \u003ci\u003eDead Ass with K\u0026amp;D \u003c\/i\u003eshare the core pillars of their relationship as millennial lovers and parents that have allowed them to thrive.\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cb\u003e\"Staying married in this day and age takes a whole different mindset, and this book gives an intimate and honest look at the inner workings of their strong union.\"--Gia Peppers, award-winning journalist and host\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eAfter twelve years of marriage, twenty years together, and four kids, Devale and Khadeen Ellis have been through a lot. They've loved their way through a long-distance relationship, financial instability, parenthood, Khadeen's near-death, and their near-divorce, chronicling their day-to-day life with their boys online. After much trial and error, they hit upon one surprising, essential truth: If you're looking for a healthy relationship and a fulfilling life, focus on your partner's needs instead of your wants. Choosing service over selfishness will not only make your relationship stronger, but it will help you achieve your own goals and build a legacy together. \n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eWith their trademark transparency and humor, Khadeen and Devale share the messy, behind-the-scenes work of what it takes to succeed and support one another in their search for individual purpose while growing in their marriage. They discuss family, parenting, sex and intimacy, finances, and commitment, with honest advice threaded through their stories, such as: \n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cb\u003e- Stop comparing yourselves to other couples and make your own rules.\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cb\u003e- Learn how to function as a team.\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cb\u003e- Keep talking about sex.\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003cb\u003e- The kids ain't first.\u003c\/b\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eThe Ellises might not have all the answers, but they do know that good love takes friendship, grace, and service. 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