She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

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Original publication and copyright date: 2004.

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Every man s must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First." Cosmopolitan"Ian Kerner offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women in She Comes First "an "essential guidebook to oral sex from the author of Be Honest You re Not That Into Him Either." The New York Times "praises Kerner s cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform, as he encourages men through an act that many find mystifying. An indispensable aid to a healthier, more fulfilling sex life for her and" him, She Comes First" offers techniques and philosophy that have already earned raves from the likes of bestselling author and Loveline "co-host Dr. Drew Pinsky as well as Playgirl "magazine, which cheers, Hallelujah! "

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As women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate." Most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. But in the world of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to sex therapist (and evangelist of the female orgasm) Ian Kerner, oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay: simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again. Can you say "viva la vulva"?

Fun and informative, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring that sexual fulfillment is mutual.

"Men, while still lame, can no longer hide behind the old excuse of ignorance when it comes to pleasuring a woman--the facts are all here in this complete guide." - Dr. Drew Pinsky, co-host of Loveline

"An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!" - Playgirl

"Required reading for all men who are dating and all women who are wondering why they're not satisfied." - Cindy Chupack, writer/executive producer of Sex and the City

"Take note, guys. This book is your secret weapon." - Jauretsi Saizarbitoria, Jane Magazine

"Here comes a book that puts men in their places - smack dab in between women's legs!" - Cake

"In a town where everyone wants go down in history remembered for something, Ian Kerner wants to go down as the champion of going down." - New York magazine

"Is it too late to nominate Kerner for some sort of Nobel prize?" - Blogcritics.com

"The title says it all. This is always my first recommendation for any guy who has found female sexuality a mystery, because it gives very specific, useful tips for the female anatomy. Trust me, reading this book will definitely change how you view sex and brush you up on your cliteracy." - Emily Morse, Sex with Emily podcast

"Perhaps it's time we paid more than lip service to the idea of true sexual liberation, and perhaps She Comes First is just the sort of talking point we need to get us started. " - The Guardian

"This book has an incredible amount of detailed, useful information about pleasuring women. I kind of knew I was doing everything wrong, but now I know why. Thanks Ian!" - Time magazine

"She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there." - AskMen.com

"This book has an incredible amount of detailed, useful information about pleasuring women. I kind of knew I was doing everything wrong, but now I know why. Thanks Ian!" - Joel Stein

"The sex manual getting the most attention these days is SHE COMES FIRST: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner... With a cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform, he encourages men through an act that many find mystifying." - New York Times Sunday Book Review

"The man who made oral sex into an art form." - Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D, Professor of Sociology, University of Washington and author of Prime: Adventures and Advice on Sex, Love and the Sensual Years

"If you're at all confused about how to use your tongue or fingers to make a woman come, consider reading the unparalleled work of genius She Comes First by Ian Kerner. The advice is extremely practical and hands on--he will literally walk you through every step of the way, with things like the Jackson Pollock lick and the Elvis Presley snarl." - GQ

"Move over, Casanova. Step aside, Don Juan. Out of the way Mr. Big. Meet Ian Kerner, the author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman." - New York Post

"With a cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform, [Ian Kerner] encourages men through an act that many find mystifying." - New York Times

"She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there." --AskMen.com

The essential guidebook to oral sex, She Comes First offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women

As women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate." But in the pages of this must-read sex guide, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved, and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner--sex therapist and evangelist of the female orgasm--oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay, and is simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.

Fun, informative, and full of practical sex advice, She Comes First is an encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring mutual sexual fulfillment.

This essential guide for men breaks down the art of female pleasure:

• A New Philosophy of Sex: Discover why author and sex therapist Ian Kerner believes oral sex shouldn't be foreplay, but "coreplay"--the center of mutual satisfaction.
• Guide to Cunnilingus: Learn dozens of tried-and-true techniques, moving beyond guesswork to master the art of pleasuring a woman every time.
• Understanding Female Anatomy: An easy-to-read breakdown of the clitoris, the G-spot, and the keys to the female orgasm, written to make you an expert.
• Better Sex Life: Move past performance anxiety and "ill-cliteracy" with a fun, informative, and shame-free approach to ensuring she comes first.

Review Citations:

• Ingram Advance 06/01/2005 pg. 102 (EAN 9780060538262, Paperback)
• Publishers Weekly 04/26/2004 pg. 55 (EAN 9780060538255, Hardcover)
• New York Times 09/26/2004 pg. 31 (EAN 9780060538255, Hardcover)
• Wilson Nonfiction Catalog 04/11/2019 (EAN 9780060538255, Hardcover)

Contributor Bio:Kerner, Ian

Ian Kerner, Ph.D., is a sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books, including She Comes First, which has been translated into more than a dozen languages. He contributes regularly to CNN on topics related to sex and relationships and is the co-founder of the Sex Therapy Program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, one of the oldest and most respected not-for-profit mental health training and treatment facilities in New York City.