We Have Always Been Here: A Queer Muslim Memoir
We Have Always Been Here: A Queer Muslim Memoir
Review Quotes: NATIONAL BESTSELLER WINNER of Canada Reads 2020 WINNER of the 2020 Lambda Literary AwardShortlisted for the 2020 Edna Staebler Award for Creative Non-Fiction Longlisted for the 2020 RBC...
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Review Quotes: --The Globe and Mail "Habib writes through a lens of compassion, hope, and ever-widening circles of understanding." --Quill and Quire "I fell in love with this book. In prose as economical, crisp, clear, and truthful as poetry, Samra Habib offers a map of how we might learn to see and treasure one another and ourselves. In this way it calls to mind the works of James Baldwin, Langston Hughes, and Jane Rule. I predict that this book will never go out of print--it will become required and desired reading for people of all ages, persuasions, and backgrounds. How I wish I had had it to keep close to my heart when I was younger." --Shani Mootoo, author of Cereus Blooms at Night "A brave coming-of-age account . . . A heartfelt act of resistance for queer Muslims and progressive Islam everywhere." --Literary Review of Canada "Gutting and redemptive, We Have Always Been Here is the story of one [person's] path to self-determination against every odd. Habib's voice is sensual and mesmerizing, [their] talent fierce and necessary. A transformative reading experience . . . Habib's every word lifts off the page, vital and bright as a match being struck." --Claudia Dey, author of Heartbreaker "Powerful . . . We Have Always Been Here is a portrait of a [person] who eventually does find the key to . . . [their] identity." --Toronto Star "I could not put down this drama of crossing borders, both external and interior, that teaches us to look into ourselves more deeply and to see others with more empathy. This book is a gift in a historical moment of many struggles, and we are lucky to share Habib's generous and courageous story. I will be giving everyone I know this book!" --Kim Echlin, author of The Disappeared "A memoir of coming of age and coming out told in rich detail. Samra Habib's account of growing up queer and Muslim in Pakistan and Canada is at once searching and tender." --Rachel Giese, author of Boys: What It Means to Become a Man "Samra Habib's memoir unfolds like a pre-digital photograph developing before our eyes. The identities [they] carries lovingly and with pride insist we revere a complication for so long denied. To say I count, I exist, is revolutionary when you are denied complication. Habib has written the book [they] wished [they] had when [they were] young. It is a book we should all have had long ago." --Mona Eltahawy, author of Headscarves and Hymens: Why the Middle East Needs a Sexual Revolution "A beautiful telling of a life, of love, of the reclamation of power, of feeling truly seen, and of finding your way home. An exquisite, powerful, and urgent book." --Stacey May Fowles, author of Infidelity "A poignantly told memoir about a life fiercely lived." --Kirkus Reviews Brief Description: "A queer Muslim searches for the language to express her truest self, making peace with her sexuality, her family, and Islam. Growing up in Pakistan, Samra Habib lacks a blueprint for the life she wants. She has a mother who gave up everything to be a pious, dutiful wife and an overprotective father who seems to conspire against a life of any adventure. Plus, she has to hide the fact that she's Ahmadi to avoid persecution from religious extremists. As the threats against her family increase, they seek refuge in Canada, where new financial and cultural obstacles await them. When Samra discovers that her mother has arranged her marriage, she must again hide a part of herself--the fun-loving, feminist teenager that has begun to bloom--until she simply can't any longer. So begins a journey of self-discovery that takes her to Tokyo, where she comes to terms with her sexuality, and to a queer-friendly mosque in Toronto, where she returns to her faith in the same neighbourhood where she attended her first drag show. Along the way, she learns that the facets of her identity aren't as incompatible as she was led to believe, and that her people had always been there--the world just wasn't ready for them yet."-- Biographical Note: SAMRA HABIB (they/them) is a writer, photographer, and activist. As a journalist they've covered topics ranging from fashion trends and Muslim dating apps to the rise of Islamophobia in the US. Their writing has appeared in The New York Times, The Guardian, and The Advocate, and their photo project, "Just Me and Allah," has been featured in Nylon, i-D, Vanity Fair Italia, Vice, and The Washington Post. Samra works with LGBTQ organizations internationally, raising awareness of issues that impact queer Muslims around the world. We Have Always Been Here is their first book. Publisher Marketing: CANADA READS 2020 WINNER SHORTLISTED FOR THE 2020 EDNA STAEBLER AWARD FOR CREATIVE NON-FICTION NATIONAL BESTSELLER 2020 LAMBDA LITERARY AWARD WINNER ONE OF BOOK RIOT'S 100 MOST INFLUENTIAL QUEER BOOKS OF ALL TIME How do you find yourself when the world tells you that you don't exist? Samra Habib has spent most of their life searching for the safety to be themself. As an Ahmadi Muslim growing up in Pakistan, they faced regular threats from Islamic extremists who believed the small, dynamic sect to be blasphemous. From their parents, they internalized the lesson that revealing their identity could put them in grave danger. When their family came to Canada as refugees, Samra encountered a whole new host of challenges: bullies, racism, the threat of poverty, and an arranged marriage. Backed into a corner, their need for a safe space--in which to grow and nurture their creative, feminist spirit--became dire. The men in Samra's life wanted to police them, the women in their life had only shown them the example of pious obedience, and their body was a problem to be solved. So begins an exploration of faith, art, love, and queer sexuality, a journey that takes them to the far reaches of the globe to uncover a truth that was within them all along. A triumphant memoir of forgiveness and family, both chosen and not, We Have Always Been Here is a rallying cry for anyone who has ever felt out of place and a testament to the power of fearlessly inhabiting one's truest self. Review Citations:
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Author: Habib, Samra
Publisher: Viking
Binding: Paperback
Pub Date: 2019-06-04
BISAC: Biography & Autobiography / LGBTQ+|Biography & Autobiography / Women|Biography & Autobiography / Memoirs
Subjects: Habib, Samra|Muslim lesbians|Autobiographies|Canada
Weight: 0.55 lbs
ISBN: 9780735235007
ASIN: -
SKU: SP-9780735235007
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